Ladyjargon
December 20, 2009 by ABDada · Leave a Comment
If you’ve had any sort of communication with women you’ve been interested in, you’re familiar with ladyjargon. As I’ve taught men for almost 2 decades, you always have to go by what their actions are and not what they say. You also have to keep your own feelings and desires non-verbal, displayed only through the way you act.
Ladyjargon comes in many different forms, from verbal display of feelings and attraction, to demands for what she wants and needs. It’s complicated, because we men get so easily swayed when a woman strokes our ego. Note: women should be stroking our egos, or they don’t desire us enough. If you’re not getting the ego-stroke, you’re not desired enough. If you are getting the ego-stroke, they’re doing their jobs, and there’s nothing you should offer in terms of payment or response.
Some ladyjargon is an outright lie with their words twisted. You may have heard “I just want to be friends” or “Let’s not rush things” from women you’ve shown interest in. In all of those situations, you ended up without that woman in your love life, right? They knew, subconsciously, well in advance of you that their desire level for you was at the C level, or even worse.
There are hundreds of different ladyjargon phrases that I’ll try to cover in the Communication section under the subsection “Ladyjargon.” If you have new ones you’ve heard that confuse you, drop me an email or a comment here and I’ll do my best to untangle the mystery of why she says something but acts the complete opposite.
WARNING: You can never call a woman out on her use of ladyjargon. Most of the time, they’re truly saying things subconsciously in order to prevent you from running away while she can keep you on the backburner, or just because she’s not confident enough to be truthful. The use of ladyjargon isn’t a dealbreaker, depending on what she’s actually saying in action and body language.
One big thing you should watch out for with ladyjargon is when they display obvious insecurities. Everyone has insecurities, but if you meet a woman who looks great on the outside, but uses ladyjargon to subconsciously show you how broken she is inside, it’s a great signal that it’s time to be out of that relationship. Just because she took the time to make herself look amazing on the outside doesn’t mean she won’t give you huge signs that she’s not OK on the inside.
When it comes to ladyjargon, the best way to respond to it is by seeing through her words, watching her actions, and tossing it right back at her in a way that makes her want to inquire more about you. And when she does inquire, she’ll do it in ladyjargon, which gives you even more to throw back at her. Her desire level for you goes up, and you get to dig deeper to see if she’s a keeper.
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