Desire Grade Basics

A term that will come up often is what I call a desire grade; a woman’s level of desire towards a man can be graded just like a report card: from A+ desire grade to F-.  You can grade all women (even friends) using my system to gauge the level of desire they have for you.  By keeping tabs on their desire grade over time, you can judge if they’re worth spending more time on, or less, or if it’s time to hit the road.

Measuring how much desire a woman has for you will seem complicated at first.  The main grade points of A, B, C, D and F may seem overwhelming, but once you start noticing things from different women you trial date, you’ll become comfortable giving any woman you date an instant grade from date one through date 1000.

It’s important to start the desire grade chart at the average grade: C.  A woman with a C-graded desire in you will seem like she wants to see you, she’ll even use Ladyjargon to make you think she likes you more than she does.  The C-level woman is one that you should not date ever, not from the start, and end things quickly if a woman you’re dating gets to the C-grade.

Women who are dateable will be in the B- desire grade range to the A+ desire grade range.  Once a woman gets to the B- level, though, you’re on the verge of relationship collapse.  A woman can transition from B- to C+ very easily, and the relationship may still last months, or worse, years.  The issue is that once she falls below a B-, the relationship is basically over.  I’ve talked to hundreds of women in my life after a breakup where they said the same thing: “I was ready to break up a year ago and should have.”  If you go back a year to when they were ready, it was when they fell from a B- grade of desire to a C+, and then to a D, and finally to the F grade where the breakup just happens.

A woman won’t go from a C to a B, ever, but she can go from a B- to an A+desire grade if you understand what her real needs are and not the ones she pretends to want.  It’s important to separate her words from her actions.  Words will always throw off a man’s ability to grade a woman’s desire, as much by a full letter grade.  Ignore her Ladyjargon words, or use them to downgrade her, never upgrade her.  Only actions are acceptable meters to gauge a woman’s desire grade.

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