B-level Desire Grade
February 5, 2010 by ABDada · Leave a Comment
When it comes to assessing a woman’s desire grade level towards you, we always want them to have an A-level desire grade for us, but at the very least they need to be in the B-level range. Anything less than a B-level desire grade means the relationship is actually over, but she’s too guilty in fear of hurting you to actually break up with you. Men break up when their desire grade for a woman falls into the C-range, women break up when their desire grade falls into the F-range. Once a woman hits the C-level or lower, there is no chance of ever getting back to the B-level or A-level desire grade.
That means you’re still dating and interested in a woman because you have an A-level or B-level desire grade towards her, not lower. By understanding the B-level desire grade that she has towards you, you can be aware if it should fall into the C-level desire grade, which is the point that you have to break up with her, even if your desire grade towards her is still skyrocketed at the A-level. You lost to her game tactics, and you want to save yourself time, money and heartache by getting rid of her since she doesn’t have the ability to do it to you (until the next better man comes into her life).
Here is how to gauge if she has a B-level desire grade towards you:
- She mentions wanting to see you, on occasion.
- When you propose dates to her, she always accepts, or at least will come up with a counteroffer if she can’t.
- She mentions that she likes you, on occasion.
- She initiates physical contact, on occasion, even if it’s light touching when you’re near her.
- She always accepts your kisses and never turns away.
- She answers your questions about her life when you ask them, in detail.
- She keeps here eye contact on you and not her surroundings.
- She doesn’t use excuses often to turn down sexual advances by you.
- She responds to your emails or text messages in a reasonable amount of time.
- She doesn’t ignore your phone calls often.
- When you make dates, they’ve never tentative dates, they’re concrete.
If you look at the list of A-level desire grade features, you can compare them to this list. I plan on making a desire grade comparison chart soon so you can look at them all side-by-side, easily gauging a woman’s desire grade towards you.
As you can see in comparison, it is still obvious that she likes you and wants to know you better, but she’s not as aggressive about it as if her desire grade was skyrocketing. The various sub-grades in the B-level desire grade (B-, B, B+) are adjusted based on how often she does the things above.
Remember, if a woman has a C-level desire grade, or even worse a D-level desire grade, she’ll still date you, just so she’s not single and lonely. She doesn’t like you, but you’re better than nothing at that stage. The relationship is already over in her heart, and all it takes is a few minutes with a more interesting man to get her in the F-level desire grade point where she will use ladyjargon on you like “I think we need a break” or “I need some time.” That’s the equivalent of “get lost.”
A woman at the B-level desire grade towards you still has an opportunity to get to the A-level desire grade, but it requires that you stick to the rules even stronger than ever. A woman’s desire grade increases as a man becomes more interesting and mysterious to her. When she thinks she knows everything about you, and everything you feel towards her, she’ll feel ownership, and her desire grade level will plummet forever, never to return. If you’re at the B-level right now, you’re in fine shape. but you need to fulfill her economic dating need to question your life, what you’re doing, who you’re with, who else you might be seeing, and what makes you tick.
One of the fastest ways to take a B-level desire grade towards you to the A-level desire grade ceiling is to refocus all your conversations on her. Let her do the talking. The more she talks, the better of a listener you are, and the more she’ll desire you. Don’t give her clear, concise answers to her questions about your life (this is what she wants, to not win over you quickly). Answer her as vaguely as is possible, and turn those questions back on her.
Don’t be too available to her! If she wants to see you, do it on your schedule. If you really are that available that you can see her at the last minute any night of the week, it’s time for bringing some guy friends into your life, or even date more women casually so your time is occupied. If she says “My night is open all of a sudden, let’s get together tonight” you should just tell her you have other plans. Don’t say “I’m going to my mom’s house to cry about you,” just say “I have plans tonight, how about another night?” If she knows what your plans are exactly, your mystery drops. If you’re vague, she will immediately think you have a better woman you like more (even if you don’t), and that will raise her desire grade a half notch, plus she’ll dress better, look prettier, and give you more mental and emotional attention.
Stay far from bragging about anything in your life: braggadocio isn’t what she cares about, plus it gives her too much information about what makes you tick. If you must talk about details in your life, talk about future plans you have for yourself, stuff that hasn’t happened yet so she doesn’t feel like she knows you. The more you openly share without her feeling like she had to dig for information, the lower her desire grade towards you falls. Women want to dig, they want to wonder, they want to create scary stories in their heads about all the women you’re dating and how all of them are more attractiver, skinnier and more emotionally stable than they are. It’s a quirk, a glitch, but it’s the way it is.
Having a woman to date who has a B-level desire grade is a great thing because she’s giving you some signs that you need to continue dating her, she’s giving you some of the needs you have to feel like you’re doing a good job, and she wants to know more about you. But it’s not enough, so follow the rules properly and get her to explode in how much she wants you in her life.
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