Ladyjargon: You’re cute but you’re too smart

A Facebook reader sent me a private message about a recent situation where a woman he ran into recently who fed him a line that he instantly tagged as ladyjargon (good job, fair reader!).  She said:
“Oh, Kyle, you’re so handsome, but you’re also a genius, and that frightens me.”

Ladyjargon: Let’s take things slow

I love ladyjargon, but more than anything, I love the Facebook private messages I’ve been getting lately asking me very detailed questions about the relationship ruts some of you men are in.  It’s these very questions that keep my mind looking for new answers, and it is a pleasure to help transform a chicken-man into [...]

Ladyjargon: I’m not looking for a relationship right now

Ladyjargon can sometimes be spoken by men and women, but even terms that are used by both seem to be primarily used by women.  Recently I heard from two men that women they went out with a few times told them that they weren’t looking for a relationship right now.  Sadly, the men made the [...]

Delivering curiosity towards her life

One of the most mysterious things I’ve discovered in my dating life is the conundrum of mystery itself: a man who offers a woman mystery will be the only man that can get a high desire grade from that woman, and keep it there.  The conundrum is that one action a man can do to [...]

Asking about her dating and sexual history

I’ve been on a lot of dates in my life, first dates, second dates, 50th dates.  I’ve been married unsuccessfully (due to breaking all my own rules!), I’ve had amazing long term relationships and wonderful spring flings.  Something that always amazes me, even about myself, is how curious men can be about the past relationships [...]

Romance versus Ownership

A regular reader of BAM here asked me a pretty strong question the other day: “I like all your logic in dealing with women, but what about romance?”  Ahh, romance!  Romance is the subject of all practically every women’s magazine cover (written by men), and every man I’ve ever talked to who likes women.  The [...]

You like her too much

An interesting private message hit my Facebook today from someone who is starting to read this site:
I recently started dating a woman and I can’t keep my mind off of her.  I don’t think she likes me as much as I like her.  What is the right thing to do?
Maybe you’re in the same boat. [...]

The first date, coffee or tea

When you’ve met someone, in real life, online or a blind date through friends, the most important things you want to do on a first date is to gauge her initial desire grade towards you.  A first date is not about learning much about her, but about seeing if she likes you.  The fact that [...]

Giving her some economic truth: dating supply and demand

When you’re involved in financial decisions, there’s reality to every decision: supply and demand.  If you want the latest electronic gadget that everyone wants, there’s going to be a lot of demand and not a lot of supply.  This causes prices to skyrocket.  If a company makes a billion pencils that no one wants, there’s [...]

A-level Desire Grade

When it comes to grading the level of desire a woman has for you, and you have for her, the A desire grade is the one that is most exciting.  When a woman has a A-level desire grade for you, you’re doing everything right, and she’s showing it to you through her actions, not her [...]

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