Next Step: Planned or Tentative Dates
February 27, 2011 by ABDada · Leave a Comment
If you haven’t used the BAM Desire Grade Level Calculator, go try it now! It’s a great way to review your relationship with the woman or women you’re dating, and to see if you need to back off a bit so that you help fulfill her desire to chase you and dig into your life.
Planning dates [...]
Next Step: Canceling dates
February 27, 2011 by ABDada · Leave a Comment
If you haven’t used the BAM Desire Grade Level Calculator, go try it now! It’s a great way to review your relationship with the woman or women you’re dating, and to see if you need to back off a bit so that you help fulfill her desire to chase you and dig into your life.
A woman [...]
Next Step: Initiating Digital Commuication
February 27, 2011 by ABDada · Leave a Comment
If you haven’t used the BAM Desire Grade Level Calculator, go try it now! It’s a great way to review your relationship with the woman or women you’re dating, and to see if you need to back off a bit so that you help fulfill her desire to chase you and dig into your life.
Women, even [...]
Next Step: Non-Intimate Physical Contact
February 27, 2011 by ABDada · Leave a Comment
If you haven’t used the BAM Desire Grade Level Calculator, go try it now! It’s a great way to review your relationship with the woman or women you’re dating, and to see if you need to back off a bit so that you help fulfill her desire to chase you and dig into your life. [...]
The Pick-Up Artist (PUA)
February 24, 2011 by ABDada · Leave a Comment
The Pick-Up Artist community has been growing in leaps and bounds (and blogs and books), more-so since TV reality shows were dedicated to specific “mentors” within the community. I’m an avid reader of many blogs that dole out relationship advice: ones for males, ones for females; for love or lust or friendship. Within the Pick-Up [...]
Hypergamy, Competition, Value Added Dating
It’s a rough dating market out there, based on where you live and what you consider your dating target. In the past few years, I’ve fielded hundreds of questions (on top of maybe thousands of rants) from males and females, gay, straight and bi, white and black and Asian and Hispanic, about how much they hate dating, and [...]
Being a Primal Man
February 21, 2011 by ABDada · Leave a Comment
Last week, a recently gained gal pal queried me about what exactly I mean by “being a primal man.” I hadn’t actually given it much thought, in terms of overall definition, so spent the weekend examining myself, my goals and my activities to come up with a reasonable breakdown of what I mean when I [...]
Money worries = other worries
February 18, 2011 by ABDada · Leave a Comment
Last week on Financial Friday, I wrote about the top 8 complaints I saw guys posting on Facebook. I also attributed many of these concerns to a guy’s lack of available cash. Consider this part 2 of a longer series on reducing those complaints by building a nest egg that exists primarily to reduce worries, [...]
Don’t fake it, do it.
February 15, 2011 by ABDada · Leave a Comment
The past 2 weeks have been communication hell for me. While I am happy to mentor to the future men of the world, I also spend a lot of time with the females as well — not just dating. I’ve always been attracted to open communications with women of all sorts (friends, family, [...]
A Primal Man’s Kitchen: the Scotch Whisky glass by Glencairn
February 14, 2011 by ABDada · Leave a Comment
Alcohol is one of those things that few lifestyle sites really focus on. For some, alcohol is a nemesis of great evil — if you’re a recovering alcoholic, this post isn’t for you.
For those of us who aren’t the addictive personality types of men, I’m going to recommend dipping your toes into the world of [...]
